In Islamic world, it is allowed to marry more than one wife subject to condition that the husband treat all his wives equally. Whatever may be the reason for having multiple wives, there is an ample scope of it being abused.
Some poverty stricken Indian Muslims forget that they are responsible for their daughter's future. For sake of small money paid in return for marriage, they are playing with emotions of their own daughter.
Marriage being a "contract" in Islam, here is a classic report by Sreenivas Janyala published in Indian Express on Mar 10, 2013 that can be said as "a systematic sale of girl" to a foreign tourist.
Marriage being a "contract" in Islam, here is a classic report by Sreenivas Janyala published in Indian Express on Mar 10, 2013 that can be said as "a systematic sale of girl" to a foreign tourist.
"Osama Ibrahim arrived in Hyderabad a month ago with very specific
requirements: he wanted to marry a girl below 20; he would pay Rs 1 lakh
to her family as bride price; the marriage would last a month; and that
he would leave the country after a divorce.
The 44-year-old Sudanese engineer, who has a wife and two
children back home, had no problem finding what he wanted. At least five
brokers agreed to provide girls and families meeting his
specifications. He rejected three brides-to-be, before selecting a
17-year-old.
Her story would have become one of many in Hyderabad's bride
bazaar but for the fact that this girl decided to fight back. On March
1, eight days after the nikaah, she managed to escape, reached
Moghalpura police station and filed a complaint.
Since then, Ibrahim, the girl's father Yousuf Ali, her aunt
Mumtaz Begum, the qazi who conducted the wedding, Mohammed Nasiruddin,
and an alleged broker, Zahira Begum, have been arrested. On March 5, the
girl was shifted into protective custody at a Government Girls' Home on
the recommendation of the Investigating Officer in the case, Vijay
Kumar.
"I was surprised when I came to know that the marriage was
performed by a government-appointed qazi. It is illegal. He claims he
did not know about the contract (for the wedding), but I do not believe
him," Inspector Kumar says.
The 17-year-old from Moghalpura's Tallabkatta area has eight
younger siblings—two brothers and six sisters. Both her parents, Yousuf
and wife Ayesha, work as labourers. Yousuf has two other wives, with
several more children. His two brothers and their families also live
with them.
An intermediate drop-out, the girl says she was told she would be
marrying a wealthy engineer, who would pay her father Rs 1 lakh. "I did
not know that he was 44 years old and already married. On February 21,
the nikaah was performed at our house and, even before I could give my
consent, the ceremony was over. I was in shock and do not even remember
saying kabool. Only after the ceremony did I see him," she says.
"After the wedding, he came to our house every day but I always
found one excuse or the other not to be alone with him. My friend helped
me slip away from home and call the police," she says.
Zahira Begum, who is accused of brokering the marriage between
the Sudanese and the girl's family, initially tried to pass herself off
as a distant relative. But police have found that she was not related
and allege that she is a well-known broker operating in Charminar,
Moghalpura and Barkas areas.
The girl's aunt met Ibrahim through brokers, who also contacted
families of several other girls. "Ibrahim chose this girl, paid the
money to her aunt and within hours, a qazi performed the nikaah. The
girl was taken home and was to return to the guesthouse where Ibrahim
was staying, but she slipped away from home and lodged a police
complaint," says Kumar.
Ibrahim is among the many "grooms" from Sudan and Nigeria
believed to be scouting Hyderabad for young girls to marry and leave.
The racket that was earlier confined to sheikhs from the Gulf has spread
to these African countries. There are cases where young students from
East African countries have entered into contracts with girls' families
with a clause that the alliance is to automatically end the day they
complete their studies and return home.
"It is often girls from poverty-ridden families who are forced to
agree. Sometimes there are six to eight girls in a family, and they
feel there is no way out. The understanding is that the bride price
received would pay off debts, if any, and help the family in dire
straits. It also paves the way for other girls in the family to marry,"
says Shiraz Amina Khan of the NGO Women and Child Welfare Society.
If anything, getting such brides has become easier. "Earlier, at
least the bride price was a few lakh rupees, now it is just about one
lakh. After brokers take their cut, the family ends up getting less,"
says Khan.
The Waqf Board says that government-appointed qazis do not
perform these contract marriages. But the girl's case proves this to be
wrong. "Such marriages cannot be considered valid under the law of the
land or Islamic law. Poor families are falling into this trap lured by
brokers and fixers," says Ikramullah, chief of the government-appointed
qazis for Hyderabad. He adds that he would make sure that Nasiruddin,
who performed the girl's marriage, is convicted and never performs
another nikaah.
Last July, concerned over the increasing number of such
marriages, the Waqf Board had called a meeting of government-appointed
qazis. "Our aim was to convey to the qazis that they should desist from
performing contract marriages," Waqf Board chairman Syed Gulam Afzal
Biyabani says. However, of the 14 government-appointed qazis, only eight
turned up. "Of the eight, two said they would not perform a marriage if
they 'felt' something was not right or the girl 'appeared' to be a
minor. Only after we talked tough did they agree to scrutinise all
marriages involving foreign nationals," a Waqf official says.
Officials admit the demand and the ready supply, given the
desperation of the families, make it difficult to break the nexus.
Still, they believe, the Waqf Board is not strict enough. "The board
should not attest marriage certificates in suspicious cases and insist
on couples registering their marriages. Qazis should be asked to file
copies of all nikaahnamas of marriages they perform. If the board wants,
it can ask the qazis to insist that foreign nationals get permission
from their governments to marry here," says Zahid Ali Khan, editor of
Siasat newspaper, which ran a campaign a few years ago against contract
marriages.
One of the senior-most qazis in Hyderabad, Ali Abdullah Rafai,
was arrested in 2011 and his licence cancelled after he arranged
contract marriages of several minor girls with Arabs. In the past two
years, at least six government-appointed qazis have been either
suspended or arrested, according to the Waqf Board.
"Everyone knows that in Islam, such contract marriages do not
have any validity," says Khan of the Women and Child Welfare Society.
"They are just disguising what they do by labelling it a contract
marriage." "
(Last edited May 15, 2013).
(Last edited May 15, 2013).
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